Wow!. I don't even know where to start, But to be honest with you. I must say this. You got a lovely smile on that pics of yours. And that sparkling hair of yours too.. You are so gorgeous. Tell me what exactly are you looking for on here.. Few people don't really know what the are out here for.. And it rare to find such a wonderful person like you... I say this because, The very moment i saw your profile i was so intrigued. And i believe there is more to you than just your profile pics and cute smile. I would love to know more about you. by the way am Bobby. from AZ. Hope to hear from you soon.
Have a lovely day.Bobby
Have a lovely day.Bobby
Editor's Note: Yes, I was the lucky lady with this message from Bobby in my message box. I thought this great message needed to be shared.
lol myself and two friends have gotten almost the same message, but from different names. Creepyyyy!
ReplyDeleteEwweeeeee Def Creeper!!! lol
ReplyDeleteI think I had the same guy, Bobby from AZ, he would tag me in all kinds of pics that had nothing to do with me. Did his last name begin with a C?
ReplyDeleteSounds like my ex husband Bobby Cody. wouldn't be surprised if it was! lol ultrta douche
DeleteDid his name begin with Cappetto or CRAPPETTO for short?
DeleteI get a lot of weird emails like this but they are from guys in Europe. It's like... really? Do you think I'm going to fall for your douche butt, move across the ocean for your to put your douche moves on me? LOL
ReplyDeleteSo... one of the few guys you'll probably meet that's not a douche bag you will deny simply on the basis he does not understand the basics on how to approach women. See you start this site because of the mass of women who deal with assholes and you become one yourself. As a man who has been constantly been overlooked I can sympathize with this message. Women like you breed douche bags. I know because I've seen it in many well meaning kind young men I called friends who straight up told me they think it's easier to get a woman being an ass than being kind... Nice guys finish last...
ReplyDeleteDo you not realize when a guy approaches a girl like this and throws all this flattery at her WITHOUT KNOWING who the girl is... is NOT normal. That's the first red flag that should be popping up prompting the girl to RUN/IGNORE! It would be totally different if the guy approached it from a different angle, actually getting to know the girl... how can you sympathize with this message? First, he ASSUMES that she is "looking" for something online and, second, he doesn't really even ask questions that would show who she is, personality/character wise. If a guy was actually sincere in getting to know a girl, this is knot how it's done!
DeleteOh, "nice guys" don't call women assholes or any other name that is related... (another red flag!)
I suppose I could care less about your opinions... though obviously enough to still respond. I just speak my mind in some vain attempt you women might stop to understand the complexities of all that makes you, you. You all complain about your douchebags but continuously date them. Over the soft spoken quiet men who stand by your side pretending to be the friend, but secretly heartbroken constantly being overlooked. They/We are not always wierdos or gross just not "hot" or up to your standards. And when I speak of nerds I refer to any guy who is a late bloomer... It happens, they maybe didn't quite get the courage never took that leap and then they do and immediately get shot down for lack of knowledge on the female handbook for the do's and don'ts.... I suppose I understand this site. It's female based... I hate to sound sexist here but for every scorned women there's easily five or six heartbroken men. (I'll admit to being part of the latter half.) But men onlooking should probably try to understand something I am just getting... Women don't always make sense... Or... make sense to us... "Oh Stacy is such a bitch I can't stand how she...." " Yeah Baby she really is." "How could you say that she's my best friend.." I'm not going to start a site on the lengths I could go to on how crazy women can be but... If you will, could you for one souls heartbreak and tears. The same tears you've cried for some douchebag give the unlikely guy a chance... Maybe he is a creeper... Teach him... Talk to him.. Help him understand...
DeleteIt sounds like you are still angry with some situations that have happened in your life. Don't project them onto others or assume that everybody is the same... some girls have given the "nerd/nice guy" a chance and ended up regretting it. I'm choosing to learn from my lessons, more on and not continue to let them happen again- I'm not wrong for wanting to protect myself.
DeleteGood luck!
It never pays to be a nice woman either. Men take advantage of us every chance they get. Yes it leaves us jaded, sometimes broken, guarded and not able to trust any man. All the pain we go through no matter how goos we are makes it impossible for us to trust any mans intentions whether they be good or not. Its hard.
DeleteAnd for every scorned woman and heartbroken guy, there is also a humongous douchebag.
DeleteIs your name Bobby? Are you from AZ?
Deletefb IS NOT a dating site. Just because you see a good looking woman does not give you the right to ask her motives for being on it. Its none of your fucking business. I gaurentee she is on to socialize with FRIENDS, and not be harassed by creepy assholes. Shame on you. Women are not asking for this kind of attention just because they look pretty in their profile pics.
DeleteOk this is just my opinion: You cannot go around globalizing and speaking for every woman out there. Thats jumping to conclusions. I am on here to socialize but I have also seen alot of females who do use this as a means of hoping to find "The One". Physical attraction in most situations come first. Then they get to know eachother. And sadly, incase you havent noticed, FB is a social website. Thus the socializing. And it has progressed into potential dating site as well.
DeleteI got one of these messages too, and my profile pic is of me and my husband at our wedding with him kissing me on the cheek. The guy asked me if I was single. Really?
DeleteYou sir have issues!
DeleteYou probably are talking of one of thew few descent guys in the world. Because remember nerds are antisocial and incapable of social interaction... And not all unnatractive. Preppy Bitch
ReplyDeleteDescent? As in what an airplane does before it lands?
DeleteGeorge Paul
ReplyDeleteHELLO
Hi, i am sorry to have disturb..I am new to this site,I was seriously browsing for a woman when I came across your profile page. Not bad! I want some more! I am a Contractor..I lost my wife 3 years old.. i have 2 children . I'd like something somewhat different now. Can you say adventurous? Maybe start off slow, play it by ear. I feel you should know more about me. I'm good-looking, smart,hard working and funny. I'm very easy going and independent not the clingy type,lol.. I like doing many things and I'm a coffee fanatic! Go caffeine go! Don't be shy; if you're interested, get back to me, you will not regret it ok........ i will be waiting . you can also add me at pgeorge45@yahoo.com so that will can chat better baby i will be waiting for your add or mail love you
See ya... Geroge
He spelt his name wrong in the end...hilarious... So we can chat better baby... straight up super douche.
Deletelol... and WHY does George feel like you need to know more about him?? Did you ask George about himself?? Guys out there are really in need of a reality check- watch any news station, read any women's magazine and you will see WHY the creeper approach does not work for us at all. I'm not sure if it's always the case, but personally, I don't want to end up chopped into pieces, scattered in some guy from facebook's back yard. Call me any name you like, I prefer smart and cautious. :)
DeleteLol. Because ending an email to a stranger is never a red flag.
DeleteI agree.. there are obviously psychos out there... I am just fairly empathetic towards the poor saps... Ever watch Hitch? That guy... I know that guy.. I've seen many of them blossom from harmless nerd to cassanova douchebag. Fall in love with some girl who won't give them a chance or does and then isn't ready for something that serious so she cuts it off clean cold and heartless.... Crazy people exist.. But if you follow the news... That crazy person could be your mailman your co worker that guy at the bar. The person ringing up your order at the cash register... You going to stop living because of fear of the unknown? Not saying the theory fits entirely just saying it is a variable....
DeleteWith Love You. . . That should have said "Because ending an email to a stranger with 'love you' is never a red flag."
DeleteOoops.
people who are really from AZ don't say have a lovely day
ReplyDeleteSince when did "nerds" become incapable of social interaction. Don't label the rest of us self professed "nerds" in with your being anisocial and incapable of social interaction. They have therapists for that or lots of self-help books. Probably doesn't help your case seeing how you ended your message with "Preppy Bitch." I'm taking it you were a rejected douche outcast? Therapy...man...therapy.
ReplyDeleteMe thinks someone gets a little too hung up on labels?... The use of nerd in my context was a simple, for instance. Anyway, it is very typical for a nerd to be antisocial... There is probably a larger percentage of socially handicapped nerds out there than the amass of freakishly hot intelligent women who's confidence is boundless simply because of their wealth of knowledge and perfect physique. Male nerds even less so...
DeleteMust say my boyfriend of three years is a bit of a gamer/nerd however, it is not his entire life he does go to work everyday so if he wants to play video games for down time that is fine but he makes sure not to ignore me and gives me the attention I need as well. Not once did he ever approach me in such a way, had he we most likely wouldn't be dating right now because creepers and people who act better than others is a huge turn off. He took the time to ask questions about me which would tell him what kind of person I am. THAT is how to get a woman. He was a bit shy at first but took that leap. We CAN'T read minds if y'all really like your best friend of the opposite sex speak up and say so. Y'all complain about they never give you a chance, but YOU never let them know you like them as more than a friend. Sometimes all it takes is for one person to take that step.
DeleteSeriously why are the guys who like this page fucking insane? The men are coming off as severe sociopaths...
DeleteI can almost guarantee that it is probably a spam/scam message from a man from another country trying to scam some poor naive woman out of lots of money. I recieved a poorly worded message full of lots of grammatical errors and whoppers!!! It was a scam from the ukraine, someone pretending to be a us soldier stationed in the UK. Wanting my "help" cashing a check. They are truly the epitome of a douche and not some poor nerdy guy with no social skills.
ReplyDeleteHaving been burned on a few occasions by meeting men through the internet...it's just the new, easier form of "creeping". Men are so fucking lazy when it comes to truly showing real interest in a woman that this just becomes easier. I no longer date ANY guy that I haven't met in person. Yes, it goes both ways...men lie and women lie about who they really are when using the internet. I never did, though. I actually thought I could meet an honest guy on the net. Sorry to the "nice guys" out there, but the DOUCHEBAGS outnumber you and have ruined it for you on the internet as far as finding someone goes. You can't trust anything a man says on the net...and that's just the way it is.
ReplyDelete"tell me what exactly youre looking for on here" ..... what youre looking for? ummmm.. your friends maybe? sure NOT looking to get hit on my creepy guys or spam messages.. whichever it is lol
ReplyDeleteSparkly hair??? That screams creeper!!! Kill me now...
ReplyDeleteOk so I've gotten these creepy messages from guys on here too. I've also gotten the "hey baby ur hot let's hook up" and "hey baby are u single? Ur hawt." kind of messages too. Annoying as hell. They get deleted immediately.(the messages). Why do people think this is ok???
ReplyDeleteI hate those are you single messages when my profile clearly states I am in a relationship. I also have gotten those check cashing e-mails but thanks to gmail they automatically go to the spam box.
ReplyDeleteI.love how the one guy in here blamed women for turning men into douches. Classic predator/psychopath projection douche...
ReplyDeleteThis happens to me all the time...
ReplyDelete^yes!! This guy/gal. Nailed it!
ReplyDeletedefinitely agree it is a creepy message and I was finding them annoying as well. Thankfully fb does have privacy options that make it so only friends you have accepted can message you directly. Your privacy is more a choice than many are aware of.
ReplyDeletethere are always going to be red flags from both men and women. As a woman its our job and duty to educate ourselves. But is it possible to stop being so judgemental? Yes there are some seriously creepy ass men out there. Theres also alot of crazy women. If its a red flag, move on. Men and women are different. Different ways of thinking and communicating. The key is not just communication but understanding.
ReplyDeleteweird there is a douche commenting on -- I dated that douche...with douchey creepy comments ,and considers himself a nice guy ...when will the douchery stop lol eye roll
ReplyDeleteI think that these comments - in my case, a Private Message - MUST be writing assignments in ESL classes. Here is mine from Hassan Al Rassam:
ReplyDeleteHello dear how are you doing?You looking great here .It will be mine pleasure if we can get to know each other.Can you tell me about your self let see if we can fine each other interesting.Waiting for your respond..
It has been pretty tough not to jump all over THAT, lemme tell ya...
I hate when guys say girls only go for assholes. They say girls always break their heart and choose the wrong guy but never stop and think "hey, maybe I'm going after the wrong girl."
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